Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know about transforming your breakup into your breakthrough

Detache isn't just about healing—it's about using your breakup as rocket fuel for accelerated personal growth. While other apps focus on "getting over" someone, we help you transform separation trauma into the catalyst for becoming your best self.

Our science-backed approach combines:

  • AI-powered pattern analysis: Identifies your specific attachment patterns and growth opportunities
  • Complete digital detox tools: Breaks toxic connection cycles by intelligently removing triggers
  • Personalized breakthrough podcasts: Custom content based on your relationship history and goals
  • Momentum tracking: Shows your transformation in real-time with science-based metrics
  • Neuroscience-based approach: Developed with PhD-level expertise in brain science and trauma recovery

Most people take 2-3 years to truly recover from a significant breakup. Our users report major breakthroughs within 90 days because we're not just helping you heal—we're helping you become someone who attracts better relationships and opportunities.

Your iPhone stores photos—Detache strategically removes triggers while preserving memories. There's a crucial difference.

Our AI doesn't just hide photos randomly. It:

  • Identifies specific triggers: Photos, videos, and content that keep you stuck in trauma loops
  • Preserves important memories: Family events, achievements, and meaningful moments stay accessible
  • Gradual re-introduction: As you heal, we intelligently bring back content when you're ready
  • Context awareness: Removes not just photos of your ex, but places, friends, and situations that trigger setbacks

Think of it as a digital decluttering specialist who knows exactly what helps vs. hurts your recovery. Your iPhone's "Hide" feature is like putting a band-aid on a wound—our system is like having a surgeon who knows exactly what to remove for optimal healing.

Free chatbots give generic responses. Detache's AI is specifically trained on breakup recovery and personal transformation with thousands of hours of specialized data.

Here's what makes our AI different:

  • Specialized training: Trained on attachment theory, trauma recovery, and growth psychology
  • Personalized insights: Learns your patterns, triggers, and progress over time
  • Actionable guidance: Doesn't just listen—provides specific steps for your next breakthrough
  • Crisis support: Recognizes when you're spiraling and provides immediate, effective interventions
  • Privacy-first: Your conversations stay private and aren't used to train other models

ChatGPT might say "I'm sorry you're going through this." Our AI says "Based on your attachment style and current progress, here's the specific cognitive pattern keeping you stuck, and here's how to break it in the next 48 hours."

It's the difference between talking to a well-meaning friend and working with a specialist who's helped thousands of people transform their breakups into breakthroughs.

Most users report their first breakthrough within 7-14 days, with major transformation happening within 90 days.

Here's what our typical user journey looks like:

  • Week 1: Immediate relief from digital triggers and urges to check their social media
  • Week 2-4: Clarity on relationship patterns and personal growth areas
  • Month 2: Noticeable improvement in confidence, energy, and life direction
  • Month 3: Major breakthrough in personal goals, relationships, or career

Remember: we're not just helping you "get over" someone—we're helping you become someone new. The timeline depends on your commitment to the process, but our users consistently report faster progress than traditional therapy or self-help approaches.

Detache is complementary to therapy, not a replacement. Think of us as your daily growth companion between therapy sessions.

We work great alongside therapy because:

  • We provide 24/7 support when your therapist isn't available
  • We help you implement insights from therapy sessions
  • We track your progress and patterns to discuss with your therapist
  • We focus specifically on breakup recovery and growth acceleration

Many therapists aren't specialized in breakup recovery or don't understand the specific challenges of modern dating, social media triggers, and digital detox. We fill that gap with specialized tools and support.

If you're in crisis or dealing with severe depression, please seek professional help immediately. We're here to amplify good mental health, not replace professional care when it's needed.

Perfect. We're not asking you to "get over" anyone. We're asking: "What if this pain could become your greatest source of power?"

Detache works with where you are, not where you think you should be:

  • We don't rush you to "move on"
  • We help you understand WHY you're not ready (and that's okay)
  • We transform the energy you're spending on them into energy for yourself
  • We show you how to honor your feelings while still growing

Many of our most successful users started the program still deeply in love with their ex. The magic happens when you realize that loving them can coexist with becoming your best self.

You don't have to choose between honoring your feelings and transforming your life. We show you how to do both.

Detache offers flexible pricing to fit your needs:

  • Monthly: $29.99/month
  • Annual: $199.99/year (save 44%)
  • Lifetime: $399.99 (pay once, transform forever)

Compare this to:

  • Traditional therapy: $100-200+ per session
  • Relationship coaching: $300-500+ per month
  • Self-help books and courses: $50-200+ each

Most users save thousands compared to traditional alternatives while getting specialized, 24/7 support designed specifically for breakup recovery and personal growth.

Plus, we offer a 7-day free trial and 30-day money-back guarantee. If you don't see meaningful progress, we'll refund your investment completely.

Absolutely. Your privacy is paramount, especially when dealing with sensitive emotional content.

Our security measures include:

  • End-to-end encryption: Your conversations and data are encrypted at rest and in transit
  • Local processing: Photo analysis happens on your device, not our servers
  • No data selling: We never sell your personal information to third parties
  • Minimal data collection: We only collect what's necessary to provide the service
  • Anonymous analytics: Any usage data is completely anonymized

You can delete your account and all associated data at any time. We're committed to transparency about how your data is used—check our Privacy Policy for complete details.

Detache is available on:

  • iOS: iPhone and iPad (iOS 14.0+)
  • Android: Android phones and tablets (Android 8.0+)
  • Web: Chrome, Safari, Firefox, and Edge browsers

Your progress syncs seamlessly across all devices, so you can access your growth journey anywhere. Some features like photo analysis work best on mobile devices where your photos are stored.

Yes, you can cancel your subscription at any time with no penalties or fees.

Cancellation details:

  • Cancel through your account settings or contact support@detache.app
  • You'll continue to have access until your current billing period ends
  • Your data stays safe for 90 days in case you want to return
  • No questions asked, no hassles

We're confident in the value we provide, but we understand that different approaches work for different people. If Detache isn't right for you, we want you to find what is.